I had to visit my ancestral home and kshetram (temples) in Kerala as a follow-up for my father’s varshaaptika (annual death ceremony). Amidst a very hectic 2 day schedule, I had some interesting observations which I thought of penning down, lest I forget them. Civic amenities in major kshetrams needs to improve by huge margins. For toilet, we had to search across a large area before finding only one complex. For the amount of devotees and the money being collected, I am sure many more toilet complexes can be constructed to benefit old and young alike. Small temples, specially those that are attached to specific families are not having enough funds to pay for the salaries of the staff in the temple. Yet, I observe that everyone is performing their duties to their fullest without even a trace of sadness. Devotion trumps everything else. When I visited a kshetra whose priest is related to me (father’s cousin), he immediately recognised my name and remembers my nakshatra. The happiness tha...