My Maths teacher, Prof. Jayaram sir always used to quote “ There is limit for everything except for limits themselves ”. Coupled with this used to be another quote : “ Change is the universal constan t”. These quotes transcend the simple academic barriers and apply equivocally to all facets of life. Little did I realise that these are philosophical. As I sit and think back, I understand the age old wisdom that everything requires a time and situation to comprehend the meaning completely. 2023 June was a life altering time for me. My Appa’s swargavaasa meant that there was a sudden void which was real, palpable and quite draining on mind. I have always thought, why did I feel like this after my Amma’s untimely demise? The only answer I always come up with is Appa. Dealing with his loss meant that I started spending a lot of time with myself, thinking, pondering & just numb. During this time, I re-read one of my favourite books, The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin . He is one amaz...